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Paul Richard Boeding
SENECA, KS
05/08/1947 - 02/06/2025
It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Paul Richard Boeding, age 77, of Seneca, Kansas, on Thursday, February 6, 2025, at his home.
Paul was born on May 8, 1947, in Seneca, Kansas, to Edward M. and Mary (Mohan) Boeding. He was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, and friend, whose legacy will live on through his family, career, and tireless contributions to his community.
Paul was united in marriage to Marilyn Elizabeth Heiman on August 9, 1969, at Sacred Heart Church in Baileyville, Kansas by Father Arnold Boeding. Together, they built a life filled with love, dedication, and service. They were blessed with one son, Brian E. Boeding (Julie), and three cherished grandchildren: Andrew, Megan, and Lily.
A graduate of Sts. Peter & Paul High School in 1965, Paul went on to earn his Bachelor of Business Administration degree from Washburn University in 1969 and his Juris Doctor from Washburn University School of Law in 1972. He later completed graduate studies at the University of Wisconsin Graduate School of Banking in 1992.
Paul’s professional life was marked by distinguished leadership in banking, where he devoted many years of his career to serving both corporate and community interests. His early years included positions at United Missouri Bank, Plaza Bank and Trust, and First Union Trust Company. He went on to work at Centere Bank in Kansas City before returning to Seneca, where he became an integral part of Baileyville State Bank. From Vice President to President and CEO, Paul led the bank with unwavering dedication, retiring in 2016 after a remarkable 32 years of service.
Beyond his professional accomplishments, Paul was deeply committed to community service. He was a long-time board member and officer of numerous organizations, including the Seneca Lions Club, the Seneca Chamber of Commerce, Charter Member of Northview Sertoma Club (North Kansas City, Missouri), Clay Platte YMCA of Gladstone, Missouri, and the Corporate Fiduciaries Association of Kansas City. He also served on the boards of the Nemaha Valley Health Care Foundation, the STEP Foundation, the Nemaha Valley Community Hospital Board of Trustees and the Community Bankers Association of Kansas, Kansas Bankers Association and the Independent Community Bankers of America. His leadership extended to the finance and education sectors, where he was active on the finance council of Sts. Peter & Paul Parish, Sts Peter & Paul School, and the Seneca Library.
In his retirement Paul enjoyed various pastimes. Paul enjoyed golfing and was passionate about genealogy. Paul and Marilyn traveled often, spending time in Lake Tahoe and Cape Coral; and taking cruises to locations such as Australia, New Zealand and the Greek Isles. When not traveling, Paul also enjoyed cooking, grilling and experimenting with new recipes. He enjoyed watching history documentaries, reading western and various non-fiction books. Paul enjoyed spending hours attending his grandchildren’s academic and athletic activities.
Paul’s legacy is one of integrity, compassion, and dedication to his family and community. He was known for his quiet strength, his ability to connect with people, and his unwavering commitment to making the world around him a better place. Paul will be remembered as a man of principle, who led by example and touched the lives of many. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him.
He was preceded in death by his parents and his siblings, Kathleen Dowd, Alice Rice and Al Boeding.
He is survived by his wife, Marilyn of 55 years; his son Brian and daughter-in-law Julie of Wichita; and his beloved grandchildren, Andrew, Megan and Lily all of Wichita. He is also survived by his brother, James (Mary Jane) Boeding of Seneca, Kansas.
Rosaries will be held at 2 and 7 PM at the Lauer Funeral Home in Seneca on Monday, February 10, 2025. The Mass of Christian Burial will be held at Sts. Peter and Paul Catholic Church in Seneca at 11 AM on Tuesday, February 11, 2025. The burial will be held in the church cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in Paul’s memory to Nemaha Valley Community Hospital and/or Sts. Peter & Paul School.
Rosaries will be held at 2 and 7 PM at the Lauer Funeral Home in Seneca on Monday, February 10, 2025.
The Mass of Christian Burial will be held at Sts. Peter and Paul Catholic Church in Seneca at 11 AM on Tuesday, February 11, 2025. The burial will be held in the church cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in Paul’s memory to Nemaha Valley Community Hospital and/or Sts. Peter & Paul School.
Rosaries will be held at 2 and 7 PM at the Lauer Funeral Home in Seneca on Monday, February 10, 2025.
The Mass of Christian Burial will be held at Sts. Peter and Paul Catholic Church in Seneca at 11 AM on Tuesday, February 11, 2025. The burial will be held in the church cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in Paul’s memory to Nemaha Valley Community Hospital and/or Sts. Peter & Paul School.
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Absolutely so sad to read this. I can remember playing “phone tag” in HS & called Boed, only for Paul to answer. The laughs we had after! Thinking of you all.
Marilyn and family: So sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Keep the memories. Hugs, Connie and Ced Woodard
To all of Paul’s family, my heart aches for you. Paul and Marilyn always believed in the community and made financial decisions and heart felt decisions based on what they believed best for the community not just financial gain for themselves. He was a man of compassion. Thanks for your friendship along the way.
Uncle Paul ,
Where to begin! It was alway a great pleasure getting to spend time and conversation with him. My favorite conversations were always about FAMILY!! Sitting around the dinner table one very special evening, Uncle Paul, Uncle Jim, Al, Annette, Marylin and the 3 brother telling about life growing up! Will cherish that memory for ever. Uncle Paul you have a very special place in my heart! Rest In Peace, Love you!! I am sure your heavenly family have pulled up a chair at the table. ❤️🙏🏻😇
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this incredibly difficult time. Paul was a truly wonderful man who will be deeply missed.
Marilyn and Family – I was deeply saddened to hear about Paul’s passing. He was a wonderful person who brought warmth and positivity to everything. He will be missed dearly. Please know that my thoughts are with you, your family and loved ones during this difficult time.
Marilyn and family, We are so sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. He brought compassion and understanding to all interactions. It is comforting to us that he is now being embraced with love eternally. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Paul was a classmate of mine at Sts. Peter and Paul. I remember him being kind and genuine even as a young man. I only saw him occasionally when I came to visit family in Seneca, but I always felt that same warmth. I hope his family and all he touched will cherish how special he was..he was one of the good guys.
So very sad to hear of Pauls passing. Such a kind, gentle soul, with an ornery smile. I am sure he will be missed terribly. Thinking of you Marilyn and all of your family.
Marilyn, Jim and Families,
We were so sorry to hear about Paul.
You could always see how much Paul enjoyed life and how much he loved his family. We hope all the wonderful memories will keep him close in your hearts.
Jim and Connie
Marilyn and family,
So sorry to hear about Paul’s passing. He was a friend to all and always so genuinely caring. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Calvin and Angie
Marilyn and family!
We were so sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. We have so many great memories from Conventions and traveling. We always thought so much of Paul! Such a kind and generous soul! Love and prayers for you all during this very difficult time!
Pat and Loretta
Sorry to hear of Paul passing. You and your family are in our prayers.
Sincere Sympathies to Marilyn and family. Paul was a good business and personal friend.Will miss the dinners out, card games and cruises to Spain , France, Italy and Germany. RIP
What a lovely, friendly and generous man Paul was. Our community will miss him. Wishing you and your family deep condolences.
Sorry to hear this, Marilyn my sympathy goes out to you & your family.
Marilyn and family so sorry for your loss. He was a wonderful man
Marilyn, Brian & Family,
So sorry to hear of Paul’s passing.
Like Wendy, I had a number of conversations with Paul (& Marilyn!) when I would call for Brian. I always noted how Brian’s parents both took an active interest in what and how I was doing.
My sincere condolences to all of you.
Joe Steinlage
Marilyn and family,
Our sincerest sympathies to each of you in your great loss. Words seem to fall short of describing how very much Paul meant to all and his immense impact on your lives and the lives around you, including the community there. He certainly has left a legacy of goodness and leadership that will continue to benefit many to come.
Although we only spent a few experiences/ adventures with you and Paul, we are very grateful to have known him. Such a great, fun man!
Many hugs, and prayers to you all! ❤️🩹
Simple pleasures are best–like those brief conversations with Paul at the bank, the church picnic, or wherever met. Usually those conversations took place with Paul and Marilyn and ended with the understanding “See ya next time.” Simple pleasures are the ones we miss. My condolence to Marilyn and family in the their loss. Peace be.
Marilyn we are so sorry to hear of Paul’s passing. Deepest Sympathy to you all.
Marilyn we are so sorry to hear of Paul’s sudden passing and as a former classmate our deepest sympathy to you and your family. May he rest in peace and prayers are with you.
Marilyn and family,
What a shock it was on Thursday this week coming out of mass in Wichita, when we (Jeanne and I) were told by Julie that Paul passed away. Our deepest sympathies to Marilyn and family. I had the privilege of being Paul’s college roommate for four years at Washburn U. May his soul rest in peace.
So sorry for the loss of Pail je will truly be missed! You will be in our thoughts and prayers!